When it snows in Alabama it feels like magic.
The white stuff causes wonder and excitement like nothing else. We watch the snow as it falls and we pray that it “sticks”. Most of the time the ground is so warm around these parts that the snow melts as soon as it touches.
And it’s one of the most beautiful sights you’ve ever seen. Especially in the country. Where the cows are in the fields and the trees are big and the sheds and fences are covered with snow.
And the roads are closed because no one knows how to drive on snowy roads and we don’t have chains on our tires.
But we play in the snow because it may be the only snow we get for a few years. We build a snowman and ride garbage can lids down hills and have snowball fights.
Then we gather enough snow to make snow cream and eat it while we talk about how we hope the snow stays another day.
But it doesn’t take long for the magic to melt and we wait for it to come again.
In response to the Daily Post’s Weekly Photo Challenge Temporary.
Maybe isn’t meant to be long-term. It’s a temporary place. You can hang out there for a little while, play around with the possibilities, wonder about the what ifs……..but then you have to decide and move on.
Maybe can be a time of rest and figuring out and gathering your thoughts but maybe won’t make things happen.
Sometimes maybe is necessary and can be a good thing. But if you stay there too long it weighs you down and takes up precious brain space.
Maybe you find yourself there……in a dreary place of maybe.
The only way to get out is to make up your mind. Yes or no. Make a decision and follow through.
Less than an hour ago I made a decision. I stepped out of the tentativeness of maybe and into the boldness of decision. A decision either way, a yes or no, gives a clearer view.
A decision is about NOT staying in the maybe zone. Maybe will keep you stuck and makes you forget your dreams. Maybe is in between…..neither here nor there. It’s full of hesitation and drained of confidence.
Now that I’ve made my decision I am more focused and I know what I have to do.
Are you stuck? Need to make some decisions?
I dare you to make a decision within two days. Gather the information you need, figure it out, then decide.
Because what you decide matters. You being unstuck matters.
Live like it matters.