In my last post, I wrote about the different kinds of lists we have. Whether they’re written down on paper or just floating around in our heads, we all have them. Our daily tasks and weekend projects. Our work assignments, the household chores, yard work, and the bucket list. The things we have to do and the things we want to do.
I love lists. I’ve been a listmaker since I could write my ABCs. They help me remember and keep me focused. And then, of course, there’s the ultimate joy of crossing off the things that are done.
Lists are good, but we can’t be bound by them. Our lists can’t be our driving force.
The main thing about our lists is not the doing, but the loving of the people around us while we’re getting them done. Love is the point. Loving the people God gave you or the people He gave you to. Loving those you’ve known for years and the ones you’ll meet next week. Loving your family and co-workers and friends. And the nice neighbors across the street and the ones two houses down you wish weren’t your neighbors. Loving your kid’s good teachers and the ones jaded from years of teaching.
Love compels us. Loving everyone who comes in and out of our lives. Even the most brief encounter is an opportunity to show love in some way.
Life is not the lists we make, no matter how grand the lists. If at the end of my life I’ve accomplished every single thing on my bucket list but have no one to share it with, it means nothing. The joy comes with shared experiences and memories. Not checking off the items.
Let us make our lists, especially the ones of the places we want to see and the dreams we want fulfilled. And let’s pursue those things. Just not at the expense of the most important thing – the people in our lives.
Enjoy them. Share with them. Love them.
Because at the end of our lives, it won’t matter what we’ve crossed off our lists. What will matter is how well we’ve loved the people in our lives.
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11 thoughts on “Love It or List It”
Well, don’t you just always seem to write just what I need to read at the precise moment I need to read it. Hmm, imagine that. Thank you.
You’re welcome. I needed it too. 🙂
Good Reminder! Love this!
Thank you. I’m reminding myself friend.
1. Love others
2. Everything else
That’s the best list.
I love your line…”If at the end of my life I’ve accomplished every single thing on my bucket list but have no one to share it with, it means nothing.” Great word, Marie.
Thank you Joy. Relationships are the main thing.
Great Marie!! Love You!!
Thank you Melissa. Love you too!