What we do with our time tells the world a lot about us.
How do you spend your time? What does your calendar or planner say about your life?
Last month I didn’t like what my planner said about me. It said I’m busy doing a lot of things. Good things, too. But when I’m not careful about how I plan, I end up doing a lot of additional things and ignoring essential things.
I have to regularly ask myself: is my life busy or bountiful? Manageable or meaningful? Do I value relationships over routine?
We are afflicted with the idea that we aren’t accomplishing anything unless we are rushing here and there, checking off the items on our “to do” list. But a full calendar doesn’t equal an abundant life. I cannot feel the spaciousness of God’s love when I’ve crammed my calendar full.
When I crowd my calendar with a lot of additional unnecessary activities, I crowd out opportunities for good conversations. I push away the chance of a meaningful encounter. I cannot live on purpose when I’m running around trying to accomplish a lot of things. When I’m rushing from one place to the next I don’t see the people around me. I may see them with my eyes, but not with my heart.
I won’t take the time to smile and say hello to the elderly lady behind me. I won’t notice the young boy in the cereal aisle that’s lost his mother. I’ll rush through a phone call from my sister.
Because I want to live like it matters and after years of doing it the wrong way, I know that I need time in my home with my family and I need solitude. So I must be wise when planning and making commitments. Since I work full-time most of my days are filled but I can be intentional about my evenings.
I’ve learned that I need plenty of blank spaces in my calendar….some unplanned blocks of time…………time to move at soul-speed. The kind of time when I’m still and my heart is open to any kind of heavenly thought that God might send my way.
The unplanned time can be the most meaningful time spent. The kind that allows for a lengthy unrushed phone call with a long distance friend. Or a cozy movie night at home with my husband because the kids are out of the house unexpectedly. Or a nap on a Sunday afternoon.
We all need open spaces in our calendars.
My Live Like It Matters Challenge to you is to leave some open spaces in your planner. Circle them if you have to but leave them blank. See what it does for you. See what it does for the people around you.
Unplanned time is time well spent.
Because how you spend your time matters. And how you plan or don’t plan matters.
Live like it matters.
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5 thoughts on “Open Spaces ”
Excellent, excellent word Marie. Too many times my “schedule” runs me, instead of me running my schedule. Back to the drawing board. 😉
Thanks Bruce. I tend toward that too.
I’m glad I scheduled in some time to read this posting. Just kidding! Although unplanned, the time I took to read this was well worth it.
Thank you. I want to spend my time on the best things and most of the time those things never make it onto a planner. They just happen!